Friday, September 2, 2011

Really? Yeah, have to say it...

Wow, I do believe I have seen it all now. Where did people’s dignity go? Or has social media made it to easy to cut people down to the core? People used to man up and tell people when something ended, then when text messaging came about it was through that, and now using facebook to do the dirty deed? Come on really? How low can some people get.

Granted I may be talking as a BIG sister, but damn. To break up with someone by changing your facebook status, how low can you get? Where’s the dignity in that? That is beyond cowardly. Instead of picking up the phone or driving down, you used facebook to break a poor girl’s heart. How did you do it? You changed your status from “in a relationship” to “single” and waited for her to see it.

Seriously, is this what the world is coming to? People who can’t man up and face things head on? They have to hide behind text messages and social media sites to tell people what they think of them? Heck it even happens in the blogging world. Those people who hide behind the “anonymous” name to leave cruel, rude comments, telling you how you should be living your life.

One, if I ever have something to say I tell you straight up. I don’t beat around the fucking bush. If I think it is worth mentioning I am the type of person who goes straight to you and tells you about it. Two, if I have to do it online it sure as hell is not under “anonymous”. AND I won’t leave the comment for the whole world to see. I’ll send it in an email and you will know who I am.

I was raised better than to be a coward and hide behind people/the internet. Yes my heart pounds like crazy when I have to get into a confrontation. No, I do not like getting into them and try to avoid/work them out whenever possible. No matter what I tell the truth and you know exactly what I think of you. I don’t sugar coat anything. Just ask my Husband, I can be a total Bitch sometimes, but you always get the truth out of me.

To my baby sister, I am so sorry this douche bag did this to you. I can’t imagine going through a break up over facebook of all places. I love you, and you will get through this. You’re a strong amazing girl, and you deserve so much better than that. 

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